So a picture may be worth a thousand words, but if it's foul mouthed, we're not showing it.
In the same way, we ask that you never dress in a way that would only be acceptable in a sex club, porno, or really offensive comedy mocking transgender individuals. We've had a few incidents in the past, believe it or not, where genitals were waaaay too present.
So, to be plain with plain words, conduct yourself within the group as follows:
- be polite, respectful and open with your speech, your listening, and your attitude
- dress so that your private parts are fully covered and not drawing undue attention
- racy is not ideal, but sexy has its place. Look at the photos below for some guidelines
- opinions are welcome and sought after, but offensive and insulting is not welcome
- be honest and careful if you are presenting advice to others, no one here is an expert on anything but themselves (though many of us are honest enough to question that of ourselves!)
- our meetings are not for hookups and dates. If sparks fly, consider the next venue for your intimacy, not group meetings